I haven't a clue until I know a person, deeply, as to how well we'll get on. I'd like them to match me wit for wit, remark for remark. I'm not looking for "long walks on the beach," but someone who wants to spend the day at the beach every once and a while. I want someone who is not affraid of trying new things, of speaking thier mind, and someone who is willing to challenge my intellect in every way. That's the biggest turn on for me, and I'd want my partner to find my mind exciting. I do have a slight wild side, that I hope my partner can match as well. Our interests can be diverce but they should blend well together.